Holy
Take these two dates 8/15 and 12/25

8/15 is the day my brother Carey Joesph Tolmie died

12/25 (x-mas) is the day my Grandmother Dorothy Violet Sicord died

Let’s put those two dates together
8/15 12/25

Convert each number to a letter
8=H
15=O
12=L
25=Y

8/15 12/25
H/O    L/Y

HOLY (written in blood)